15 Unexpected Signs You're In The Wrong Relationship

Not everyone is going to like the person you're with, but as The Huffington Post noted, if you're constantly defending the person you're dating, you may be in the wrong relationship.

Everyone wants the best for their significant other, so helping them grow or improve while together is a good thing. However, when you're more interested in changing them instead of helping them grow, this may not be the right person for you.

Does your partner make all the decisions in your relationship? If so, you may want to find the exit now. Your partner could be controlling or making selfish attempts to get you to do what they feel is best.

Business Insider noted that if you're still relying on your friends for emotional support, your relationship needs some re-evaluation. Though your friends can be helpful when it comes to certain things in your life, the first person you should be turning to is your spouse.

When you get into an argument with your spouse, does it always end in some type of an ultimatum? This could be an attempt for them to guilt you into staying around. It may not seem like a big deal at first, but if this is a constant issue, you are in the wrong relationship.

If you are forcing your spouse to be interested or support you for the things that you enjoy, you may need to break free from this relationship. No one wants to feel as if they have to force someone to support what they do, so if it isn't genuine, reconsider the standing of your relationship.

The person that you're with should balance out the areas that you find yourself lacking in. If both of you are compulsive spenders, your future may be a little bleak. Someone has to keep the bills in order.

If no one is ever willing to take the blame during the argument, this could be the wrong relationship to be in. Both parties can't be defensive at all times. You have to be willing to compromise to move forward.

Does your partner force you to remove some of your friends? Sure, sometimes they see negative things in your friends that you don't. But if they're worried that you'll cheat on them with certain friends or have no reason why they don't want you around them, reconsider where you are in your relationship.

According to Psychology Today, if you're not feeling like yourself anymore while with your partner, you should be reconsidering the relationship you're in. No one wants to feel like they have to be someone that they're not when they're with the person they love.

Though some people overthink situations because of their anxiety issues, if telling your spouse how you're feeling makes you nervous to the point where you overthink everything, this shouldn't be the relationship you're in. You should feel comfortable talking to them, not fearful of their response.

Although you don't have to think about forever during your first date, if you've been in a relationship with someone for awhile and you don't have the feeling that it will last forever, you shouldn't be dating. Not only is it unfair to give yourself less than you deserve, but it's unfair to the person you're dating — especially if they're feeling like it's long-term.

Thought Catalog noted that if you have to remember to include them in your future plans, this may not be the relationship for you. If you're with someone you truly want to be with, it should be an automatic thing to include them into your future life.

Being in a relationship should make your more happy than it makes you upset, so if you're feeling the opposite, you should call it quits. No one wants to be around someone that doesn't make them happy and this is no exception.

If you have to keep your significant other hidden from your friends and family, there's probably something about them that you're subconsciously ashamed of about them.