Sex isn't a one-way street, but it can feel like that when only one person gets off or when you’re hyper-focused on making sure you have the best orgasm of your life. And although you have to devote all of your energy to pleasing your partner during sex, trying to get them off could turn you on even more. By putting some of the focus on your SO, you can use certain sex positions to give your partner the best orgasm and make your romp even hotter.
Yep. I said 'best' orgasm. Any sex position is good, obviously, but there are certain ones that can intensify your partner's orgasm. Best part? You don't need toys, lubes, or a costume to make it happen. (Although, don't throw those out. I'm sure they help, too.) And these positions aren't anything that requires Olympic gymnast-level training. They're positions you've probably heard of or ones you’ve done that just make everything better for your SO. Nobody's going to complain about a standard, run-of-the-mill orgasm, but if you can make it feel even stronger and make it last longer, then why not? These nine sex positions will give your partner the best orgasm and will make you feel like a sex goddess, too. (Although let's be honest, any orgasm with you is already the best, am I right?)
1Girl On Top
Think it's just a coincidence that your guy likes you on top? Not so much. Not only is penetration deep, but he gets to see all of you while you're on top of him. Touch yourself while you're grinding or bouncing on top to really send him over the edge, and make sure to squeeze your vagina as you move on top of him.
2Doggy Style
Not a great name, but this position is great for your boo. Your partner can go deep, giving you both the ability to twist and turn to make sure he's hitting the right spot. It's also a position that gives both partners the best chance of hitting the G-spot.
3Reverse Cowgirl
It's like being on top, but way better. Your guy is getting a full view of your butt, you can squeeze those pelvic muscles, and you're able to reach his perineum, that space between his testicles and his butt. It's packed full of nerve endings, so adding a little pressure to it can give him a super intense orgasm.
4Spooning
I mean, not to get too personal, but this position is top notch for a girl. By spooning behind her and entering, the penetration is incredibly tight. But more than that, you've got access to her breasts and her clitoris. It's also super intimate, loving, and you can kiss her neck, back, and ears, which are usually hard to get to during sex. Bliss.
5Kneeling
Another super sexy one for the ladies, kneeling in front of your SO and using your hand to get her off is incredibly hot. Have her pull her knees up and spread her legs so you can stroke her clitoris and use your fingers. Lean forward so your breasts are touching and you can both get a lot of eye candy of each other. She will be over the edge.
6The Boob Job
It's a lot like a blowjob, but instead of using your mouth, your breasts will be getting your guy off. You can start off with oral sex, or use lube, but have him sit so you can kneel in front of him, pressing his penis between your breasts and holding them together to make him cum. Slide up and down and feel free to use your tongue or lips to touch the head as it gets closer. You can also lay back and have him thrust between your breasts.
7Tire Swing
This position from Cosmo is super simple, but will have your girl completely blissed out. With both of you undressed, have your SO sit in your lap with her back to you. You'll be able to reach her clitoris and her breasts and give her an intimate position.
8Standing Up
It can sound difficult at times, but sex standing up is super hot for your guy, especially if he enters you from behind. (Not the same as doggy style since that has a woman on all fours.) It's the spontaneity of it that can send your man over the edge and the fact that he can take you in that position anywhere and any time.
9Thigh Straddle
You can either lie down on the bed or sit up for your partner to really enjoy this position. Have her straddle your thigh and grind her clitoris against you. You'll have a chance to play with her breasts, kiss her, and she'll be in absolute control about her orgasm, allowing her to vary the speed as she wants to.
